The Big Question Here Is:
Are you confident enough to meet the person you want?
There are so many ways to get to know someone but not everyone knows that, so in this post, I will be giving you some tips on how to meet new people or even get to know who you want.
Being SHEEPISH is just a way of thinking, CHANGE it and you’ll see the difference.
LEVEL 1 – (BEGINNER)
Step 1: Confidence is the key.
Being confident brings out your appeal and charisma, so make sure to step up your game through confidence. ALWAYS DO THE FIRST MOVE.
Step 2: Be yourself, don’t pretend to be someone you’re not.
If you’re trying to be someone you’re not, remember that it will just make things difficult for you, it will also make the person whom you’re talking to dislike you, you’ll end up sounding pretentious or PA-COOL. So be yourself.
Step 3 : Get to know the crowd before you spot your crush.
Don’t focus on your crush, keep it low-key. Meeting someone is like playing chess, make sure you leave a good impression to everyone she’s close with before you announce checkmate. Be the man of the hour.
Step 4 : Don’t rush.
Rushing is a sign of desperation and you don’t want that kind of impression. Good intentions will help you perfect timing.
LEVEL 2 (AMATUER)
Step 5: The basics of creating a convo.
Okay, im not saying you should lie but in order for you to relate with someone, make sure you have things in common. For ex:
Girl: ohh… I love watching getaway with murder.
Me (if I know the show): Oh my God, really? What season are you watching now??
Me (if I don’t have any idea about it): Oh yeah! I used to love that show, but then now i’m really into (insert favorite series) //
In this way, you’ll be able to access her interests and know her personality through her opinions.
Step 6: How to keep the fun flowing without being boring?
This is the “make” or “break it” stage. Haha I mean, this is where you’ll find out if the girl likes you. HOW? Okay, imagine you’re in a party and you like the girl you just had a convo with, what do you do after?
A.) Do you keep talking to her
B.) Don’t mind her and make her feel unwanted
C.) Just drink the night away and let alcohol do the trick
D.) All of the above
Answer is D. Haha
Yes, you keep talking to her. But don’t be the annoying type. Keep it casual and chill. Once she’s responding, pahabol ka ng konti, para may thrill. Like talk to your other friends and make her hear it. Be smart and intellectual. Make her want to converse with you more. Then when she actually starts talking to you after you make a move, it’s a confirmation that you’re in. Add plus points and order a bucket of San Mig Light to make the night longer.
Step 7 : How to get her number?
Don’t ask for her number if you weren’t able to successfully pull off steps 1 to 6. But if you were able to do it, CONGRATULATIONS. Asking for her number can be awkward if you guys didn’t feel any connection. It’s either you’re getting friendzoned that’s why she’s giving you her nunber or maybe she just wants to get to know you more that’s why she allowed you to text her… now that you’re in. Follow these steps and get to know more people.